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As revealed by the recent uproar in the media regarding the Ashley Madison site, the general public have a vision of most sites as being only for cheating, etc., when there is so very much more going on -- and so much more worthwhile, too. Preconceptions rule, unfortunately, as oversimplification is so much easier than thinking.
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I don't have many friends....mostly just family, so I would say "awkward"!  Being honest, I believe I have more friends here than in my real life!
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If they weren't supportive they wouldn't really be my friends, would they? Become a member now and get a free tote bag.
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I would have never thought someone would bring this up. I mean with all the,"If they're hiding this,what else are they hiding?" Always being bandied about so often here Using more than all the road!
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Yeah, Kinky.... If only they knew  There are so many levels in this post..... Why is snooping accepted? What's wrong with looking at porn (yes there are limits, but I assume it was consenting adult porn)? Why on *ucking earth would you speak to someone else about your partners private viewing habits? Overall though, at least he is sharing it with his wife Or at least trying what he has researched on her Great post Kinky.... Mark xxx
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A select few know I am here, but no ones knows of my blog... no one. Thoughts from the Garden...
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Outside of my circle of kinky friends, the rest of my friends and family would probably be shocked if they knew the truth, and I know that some would react very negatively toward the kink, polyamory, explicit pictures, etc. It would probably generate the same kind of reaction Caitlin Jenner got -- a mixture of support and intolerance. [post 3097853] Come join the half-nekkid fun! Check out HNW Bloggers.  
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I have a friend who knows I explore the alternative lifestyle...BDSM. He is ok with it. But, he doesn't know I am on here. He knows I attend BDSM munches and events. He just tells me he is not into that. “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64 
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I'd prefer to keep this side of my life secret, but I also imagine that many people I know do similar things online.
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Some of my friends know and are in this type of lifestyle. Some of them don't and I keep it that way. It is funny though, one friend knows and keeps his wife far away from me... Lol..
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having a very similiar experience with one of my friends. i warned him years ago people alwways think im reallly innocent (you should see my purity test!) he seems to be stand offish right now but im sure hes still a friend. its probabbly a cases by case basis. some people will freak! others would lean in. really depends on the person and the friend they are
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I keep wondering if any of my friends actually do know I'm on this site. If they do, then how did they know?  
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Great post!  and it's a dilemma I share with you. I am like you, if asked, I'd answer the same way you did. Coyly and not reveal too much of myself. It is also harder for me when my vanilla friends are discussing 50 Shades. I just keep my opinions generic and not say too much about the subject. You never know. As far as it being awkward or supportive... good question. I think/feel that since you are not 'swinging' with them anyways, they might not really care, other than if you are in a social setting and your 'date' may or may not be called into question. Just my humble opinion.
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Generally speaking, I think "surprised" would be the operative word. “Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” ― Oscar Wilde
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I wouldn't even make this adventure as I already know the answer.. Only one g/f of mine that knows I am on here and she is on here too. Kinky Pictures are worth a thousand words.. Yours are awesome.. hugssssssssssss V Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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 Real friends would embrace you.....some may even enjoy it
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My bff knows but we never talk about it. Some close friends tell me to stay safe. Family members don't know, and I'm ok with it. "To Be Consumed" Blog : I want to be your drug of painful withdrawals.
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I have two kinds of friends – my vanilla ones, and the ones I met via here.  The vanilla ones would be most shocked (and a few appalled) if they knew. So my REAL friends are the ones I met via here. Channeling Canadian Bloggers on HNW Silent Sex Floating through Life [post 3312759] My Private Blog – Tell me All your Secrets
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Only a select few know that my wife and I met through this website.
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Its a mixed bag of responses I am sure. I think you'd be surprised that others in your life hold similar secrets and a few would be intrigued, but sadly yes a few would judge..
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I wonder what the boss would say since I only log on when I am at work.
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Most of my friends are either from work or my wife's family, so awkward doesn't even begin to describe how it would be if they knew how much time I spend on this site. Got a couple of old friends that might be a bit shocked but not judgmental. My wife, who I no longer live with, gave me all kinds of shit when she found dirty magazines in my office (they were in the same hiding place as the Halloween candy). Enjoy life and never be afraid to try new things
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My swinging friends know I am on here..as for the others..well..maybe some. I love being on here!!
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There would be all kinds of opinions because I have several types of friends.
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I suspect my family, friends and coworkers have no clue about my on line life and tastes. I blogged just the other day regretting that I have no one I can be completely open with. I'm not able to be frank with my real life friends about my on line life nor can I be completely open about real life with my on line friends, it is the internet after all. Prof10001 Swing by my blog!
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Most of my sexual experiences have started over a small sexual convo and thanks to that I've explored my sexuality with almost all my friends guys abd girls and like some of the girls were pissed when they found out but then wanted to watch and join I was really nervous what people would think if they knew what I all did behind closed doors. I used to just let anyone of my friends explore or practise on me lot of my guy friends and girlfriends and it's lead to some pretty exciting adventures and it's helped me realize though I love women I don't mind playing with cock and it can be pretty fun. It was crazy cause all my guy friends who's dick I wanted to see I got to suck or take and it was amazing and then having our girlfriends watch and pleasure them self it was hot. A couple times it lead to 12 of us naked in one of our basements all fooling around and everyone exploring specially the guys who tried to deny their curiosity and I got to see all their girlfriends naked lol or got touched by them. Now it seems like when we all get together it always ends up leading to sex which is totally fine and it's getting more interesting and entertaining.
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Yeah it definitely helps and it's always good having friends who are open minded as well really allows you to explore your sexuality. But if a lot of my other friends knew what we all did in our own time they'd judge hard
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I don't have many people in my life that I can call friend, but the ones I have, they know that I'm on this site and they respect that - they stopped asking why do I need to be in here, when I answer why do you need fb? They don't see me as an expert in sex (gosh! I'm not!) but been able to clarify why certain people do what they do, want what they want - there is no right or wrong - there is just people with different needs ... Like your post and your aproach {=} Between Heaven & Hell - My Kingdom Guestbook and Messages box
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I dont think if my friends knew that it would make a difference, they would just probably shrug their shoulders and say "whatever". I have made no secrets that I enjoy watching porn online, or the FuckBookHookups videos, its mindless pleasure and after all day of dealing with people's problems, I unwind by watching porn. I have never been secretive about sex, and will freely talk about it to anyone who would ask me questions.
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I have my G-rated friends, my R-rated friends, and my X-rated "friends", and try to keep my worlds from colliding... I guess if they did, I'd just shrug and go with the flow.. I'm too old to worry about my "reputation"... Pleasing women in unbelievable ways for 45 years... You could be next...
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It does remind me of a joke... Two men talking, one says that his daughter accidently saw him and his wife having sex with another couple.. The friend asked how everyone was handling it... "Well, on the plus side", the man replied, "she'll probably never go on THAT website again!" Pleasing women in unbelievable ways for 45 years... You could be next...
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I live among prudes. I wonder if the husband of the woman really wanted to be caught. It is too easy to use private browsing.
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Tread lightly There still is allot of stereotyping in this world.
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My friends probably would not talk to me. I am the mother of 5 grown children now. I have lived some what of a sheltered life because my devotion was to my children and raising them. The majority of my friends see me as innocent and not so sexual. If they knew that I found out that I liked anal, sucking dick, and that I am thinking about having a threesome, they would totally freak. I have been dating a wonderful man for 6 months and he has opened me up to several things that I said I would never do but with him its easy. I trust him with my life and I know there is nothing that he would not do for me and nothing he wouldn't do to ensure my pleasure.
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I f they are true friends, they would and probably admit to their own fantasies and or realities, and how would you react? After all, what is a Friend? Someone that knows and shares your deep and inner thoughts. Do you want true friends, or "Fair Weather Friends'? Life is too short to make others happy if you are not happy too. It is easy to make yourself Happy and your Friends Happy too. Be yourself! As Shakespeare said "To thine own self be true"  I stopped saying Good Bye, instead I say HELLO, until I see you again! 
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I only told i´m here to my male friends LOL and they do understand. Kisses
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My friends would be understanding and supportive most likely, however I choose to be on here , and I really don't care what they think if they like it or not because it isn't about them anyway. Some of them do know I am and I have friends on here as well. Some I have come across on here and they cam across me too. I think that being honest and open with your friends is important , and they will either accept it or they won't .
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It also depends on how strong a person is and their friendships because some don't get it or understand .
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