Profile Pics  

DawnAdv3nture62 59F  
176 posts
10/31/2021 3:16 pm
Profile Pics

Does the profile picture matter in your decision chat?

(No offense meant by excluding any ones identities?)
Yes, I am a woman and I like to see nice, pictures, not just hungover and falling out of bed pictures.
No, I'm a woman and it doesn't matter to me.
Yes, I am a man and it plays a huge roll
No, I'm a man and don't care how they look.


DawnAdv3nture62 59F  
143 posts
10/31/2021 3:23 pm

I don't understand the men (and probably women too) who use a terrible profile picture and wonder if there was a problem with them as to why they are not getting the results they wanted.

I'm not saying the pics need to be professional or anything like that. But damn! Brush your hair, wash your face, at least look clean and somewhat happy! I mean unless you're in to that sort of thing...

For me, I'm not into filth and people who aren't clean. You want me or my attention be clean! If you look like a mug shot, I'm not interested. I like my men clean and kempt, nice smelling. What's your opinion?

I'm really interested to see the responses and your opinions! Thanks for stopping by!


Brownie202 64F  
2591 posts
10/31/2021 4:52 pm

It matters to me. No dick pictures. Or ass or of sex. Will get the sender blocked.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


DawnAdv3nture62 replies on 10/31/2021 7:01 pm:
I like what you had to say! You go girl!

nova197238 58M
201 posts
10/31/2021 5:30 pm

Definitely clean up and be presentable.

Dawn...nice pussy pics!

Mainer...I've got a lot of friends in the Bangor area and visit there frequently. Maybe we could connect to keep in touch and meet up sometime for a chat and a beer when I'm up there again.


DawnAdv3nture62 replies on 10/31/2021 7:03 pm:
Thanks for the compliment and opinion!

staci_19702 51T
2444 posts
10/31/2021 5:32 pm

I’m not looking for anyone, but it should be a decent picture. Not too trashy. And make it something original.

Have a great day! 💋
Staci


DawnAdv3nture62 replies on 10/31/2021 7:03 pm:
Agreed. Thanks!

Lance_Goodthrust 64M
346 posts
10/31/2021 5:47 pm

Profile pics are nice to see but do not have to be professional quality.
Boobs are boobs and pussy is pussy. Better to have a nice face picture that isn't a frown as your primary picture. Or a full length one. Other types of pictures can be your secondary ones as there are some site members who are more concerned with how you look naked.


DawnAdv3nture62 replies on 10/31/2021 7:04 pm:
Nicely put and agreed. Thanks!

62Mature4young 62M
231 posts
10/31/2021 5:57 pm

So many people see this as only a sex site, so they post their bits and pieces as if they were their only worthwhile attribute...and it is boring!


DawnAdv3nture62 replies on 10/31/2021 7:05 pm:
Good for you and our opinion! We all have our own and each are as valid as the next. Thanks so much for your opinion!

sweetcirce1 78F  
135 posts
10/31/2021 6:37 pm

I won't contact someone who posts profile pics of him having sex with a woman - if he's having such a great time why is he looking for more? And does the woman know her pussy is spread all over the net?


DawnAdv3nture62 replies on 11/1/2021 5:47 pm:
That is a VERY GOOD POINT! Thanks! I never thought about that! I appreciate you opening my eyes!

umaykissmesoftly 65F
339 posts
10/31/2021 6:41 pm

I need to see the face, preferably smiling with no hat or sunglasses. If not smiling, at least a pleasant expression, no showing off how long or thick he thinks his tongue is.


DawnAdv3nture62 replies on 11/1/2021 5:48 pm:
Agreed. I hope the men are paying attention to these comments! Thanks!

YourGoodLukCharm 62M
80 posts
11/1/2021 1:50 am

Personally, I'd be careful to what you post on any platform. Sadly this site now wants you to post pictures to their site instead of being able to use photos from your personal collection as we were once allowed to do. I wouldn't give this site that freedom with my photos. Just Google your handle and see if your profile has been used on any of their affiliate sites or stolen and used elsewhere. My profile and handle had been used on a Japanese site and the profile slightly modified to appear that I'm interested in gay males along with women and I'm not interested in men at all as stated in my original profile. Also I work part time at some colleges here. As part of our employment agreement, being found on this site or on other social media with compromising pictures of any degree could be grounds for dismissal. All I'm really saying is be careful with what you allow out of your control. It may live forever on the cloud and maybe given a different label or a new name. Chat a bit first, and see if you have the right chemistry first, that you might want to exchange a pic or two before meeting, or cam perhaps. Then hopefully meet in a neutral place for coffee, a drink and/or food, to see if you both share some common interests, feel safe, and wish to go further; that is of course unless you feel confident about the other and like the rush and butterflies of stranger sex. I might add that anonymity is also more difficult if you live in a small town as faces can be much more recognizable than when living in a larger metropolis.


DawnAdv3nture62 replies on 11/1/2021 5:50 pm:
You have presented so many VALUABLE points, that I will have to change the way I do some things. Thanks so much!

MrWrong4RghtNow 55M  
2184 posts
11/1/2021 1:52 am

Since I'm not really looking, my preferences might not matter but I'll tell what they were when I cared about such things. A profile that only shows books, butt or vagina is going to lose my interest immediately. If I know you and find you attractive intellectually or humorously then those type of photos might be fair game. I took my photos off simply because I was ready to shut my profile down. I'm keeping them off to avoid any unsolicited messages which I used to get quite a few.
I won't sidestep the fact that I am a perv but it's not my only reason for being on here. I can be a sarcastic mofo but I'm serious in how I try to treat people regardless of how they look.
I agree that posting a pic looking like Bill The Cats less attractive sibling isn't a smart move. Lol.

My name is MrWrong and I approved this comment


DawnAdv3nture62 replies on 11/1/2021 5:52 pm:
Thanks so much for your opinion and valuable input! I really appreciate it.

StuntNJ 66M  
20 posts
11/1/2021 2:36 am

not only , but the background in the picture counts. it shouldn'
t look like a sorting room at a thrift shop


DawnAdv3nture62 replies on 11/1/2021 5:53 pm:
THANK YOU!!!!! I DON'T judge how freaky you are but I DO judge your cleanliness by the background picture.

peladodel56 65M
10116 posts
11/1/2021 5:09 am

Me importa como primera impresión sobre la persona y atrapa mi atención.


DawnAdv3nture62 replies on 11/4/2021 3:01 am:
Gracias por tu respuesta.

DawnAdv3nture62 replies on 11/4/2021 5:09 pm:
Tienes mucho razon!

G000dbuddy 34M  
1215 posts
11/1/2021 5:24 am

Mails me a sex pic

goodbuddy781


cevblodgett 51F  
32 posts
11/1/2021 6:15 am

If I never saw a dick pic I would be happy. Does nothing for me. Doesn't need to be a face picture as I understand some can't post but your dick and a gut.......gets really old. Also this shit of not putting any information on their profile will make me not respond along with status. Pretty easy to tell if you are married by putting nothing. Just fucking be honest. It is not that hard to be real.


DawnAdv3nture62 replies on 11/1/2021 5:56 pm:
Agreed. I won't even look at a Nothing Profile. Nothing there so just move along. Next, etc... Don't waste people's time. Be honest.

Thanks!

Fun4u3276 58M
55 posts
11/1/2021 7:23 am

    Quoting DawnAdv3nture62:
    I don't understand the men (and probably women too) who use a terrible profile picture and wonder if there was a problem with them as to why they are not getting the results they wanted.

    I'm not saying the pics need to be professional or anything like that. But damn! Brush your hair, wash your face, at least look clean and somewhat happy! I mean unless you're in to that sort of thing...

    For me, I'm not into filth and people who aren't clean. You want me or my attention be clean! If you look like a mug shot, I'm not interested. I like my men clean and kempt, nice smelling. What's your opinion?

    I'm really interested to see the responses and your opinions! Thanks for stopping by!
Cleanliness is important to be sure! I don't dare post a full nude with face pics due to privacy reasons (not due to being in a relationship LO. I did try a dressed pic (without face) but it garnered absolutely no interest. The nude pics do okay. Given the female ratio on here it is satisfactory--even when I account for the fakes that view!
One can tell a lot about a person without even seeing their face. Things like backgrounds can reveal much. Even feet and hands can tell if someone is overweight, has self-esteem, and in some cases not clean! Ultimately, before meeting, though, I do exchange the face pics ... I'd like to think what is presented is their best, so it should be CLEAN and well-groomed.


DawnAdv3nture62 replies on 11/1/2021 5:59 pm:
I agree, I don't expect a face pic either. We all have our own valid reasons why we don't post our faces.

Hardcockonly21 50F
1 post
11/1/2021 2:24 pm

Every one likes nipples lol


DawnAdv3nture62 replies on 11/1/2021 5:59 pm:
Looks similar to mine.

HONOLULU365 50M  
58 posts
11/1/2021 3:37 pm

Hello,
You're very beautiful and sexy !
Kisses.


DawnAdv3nture62 replies on 11/1/2021 5:59 pm:
Thank you so much!

ULIXBIG 67M
9253 posts
11/3/2021 4:07 pm

I like to see a friendly profile pic...


Nxtphaze227 61F  
402 posts
11/3/2021 7:59 pm

They list hardly any information to pique "anyone's" interest at all yet expect positive interaction. But will post "Ask Me," seriously?! Um, no thanks, I'll pass...lol It's just not realistic.

Seems like the majority of male members here have little to no profile at all. They "collect" hundreds of other members' pictures and those pictures become part of their "barely there" profiles.

If they post anything at all; most times it will just be a dick pic, even one that's not their own. We already know that they have one; doesn't mean they have to "be" one. Most women don't want to see it as their introduction, just saying.

News flash, in case they didn't know, dicks really don't photograph well, no matter the size or shape...lol I guess most don't realize that apps like Tineye will/can verify authenticity.

If I view these "ghost" members' profiles; and see that they are just picture collectors; I block them on the spot. I don't understand why the site allows this practice at all; it brings even more scammers to the site. I've removed most all of my pictures to private albums, that are not accessible unless "I" allow them to be viewed.


DawnAdv3nture62 replies on 11/4/2021 5:15 pm:
Thank you so much for responding. I didn't even know or think about this practice. To be sure, I'm going to go thru my "friends" and cull the heard, so to speak. Thanks!! Very valuable info!

old_stick 59M
82 posts
11/4/2021 6:08 am

The pictures don't matter but I can't stop myself from looking


Oh_Daddy_Yes 57M  
34 posts
11/4/2021 9:36 am

The picture is a reflection of the person and should be at least a good effort to present oneself. The problem with female profiles these days is that 99% of them are fake and use stolen photos (from other profiles or from porn pages).

Is there one seeking the arms and comfort of an older man?


BiSussi 61F
1189 posts
11/4/2021 10:44 am

    Quoting Lance_Goodthrust:
    Profile pics are nice to see but do not have to be professional quality.
    Boobs are boobs and pussy is pussy. Better to have a nice face picture that isn't a frown as your primary picture. Or a full length one. Other types of pictures can be your secondary ones as there are some site members who are more concerned with how you look naked.
In deed, they don't have to be of professional quality, but not \8 in the bathroom
Even though, I do like to see a pic of the equipment, too big or too small doesn't work for me I for sure want to know what is available, if I invest time to get to know someone

I love pussies and adore nice dicks


BiSussi 61F
1189 posts
11/4/2021 3:14 pm

    Quoting  :

Oh yes, common interests are on the top of the list, but a nice pic is worth millions, isn't it?
Is he interested in Making Babies and do the garden?
What Shape Is YOUR Preference or open 4 Threesome Week Wording and pics are very important to me, as I want to make sure he uses the right tool for the gardening.

I love pussies and adore nice dicks


DawnAdv3nture62 replies on 11/4/2021 5:17 pm:
Love it, Thanks!

Keepitlight78 42M
1 post
11/5/2021 4:01 am

Hey some of us are just trying to figure this thing out... and be discreet at the same time. Tough crowd


DawnAdv3nture62 replies on 11/5/2021 2:09 pm:
I'm not picking on anyone and hope no-one else does either--I'll delete any mean comments!

If some of these answers cut close and sting (and some even sting me, but I learn from them) it's possibly because we need to change something or look at something in our lives.

Sorry if anyone has made you feel badly. I'm learning this thing too. I've only been on this site for a little more than a month!

PDXBiMan 51M
1 post
11/5/2021 9:55 am

Just like the text in the profile, profile picture tell you something about the other person. At minimum, the profile picture is a way to say "this is how I want to be perceived." Of course, pictures are not the only criteria for chatting but the profile pic is very influential.


DawnAdv3nture62 replies on 11/5/2021 2:13 pm:
Agreed! Thanks, and so nicely put!

mayilickyou69 44M  
16 posts
11/5/2021 8:10 pm

Location is a bigger decision for me than looks


DawnAdv3nture62 replies on 11/12/2021 11:26 pm:
Location is a factor.

Cornflake_Girl_ 36F  
493 posts
11/7/2021 5:09 am

Yours is one of the worst I've seen🤢🤮


DawnAdv3nture62 replies on 11/12/2021 11:26 pm:
To each his own. Thanks

socalifun1 60M
21 posts
11/7/2021 9:20 am

I would say the photo means a lot but I am always concerned that it is not a real photo ...people can be misleading. Since I can only see "quick views" a nice face does it for me.


DawnAdv3nture62 replies on 11/12/2021 11:26 pm:
That does help.

BLINGCOCK34 59M

11/8/2021 4:13 am

YOU GOT A TIGHT PUSSY


DawnAdv3nture62 replies on 11/12/2021 11:28 pm:
That's what I'm told. (Y)

Mainer30880 41M
13 posts
11/10/2021 8:13 am

Think so.


DawnAdv3nture62 replies on 11/12/2021 11:28 pm:
Yep

juliabihotty 51F
19 posts
11/10/2021 8:44 am

Thanks for the poll. Is cool.


DawnAdv3nture62 replies on 11/12/2021 11:29 pm:
Thanks, appreciate it.

Papawforyou 63M  
28 posts
11/10/2021 1:39 pm

Yes it really matters to me, If you look like a bum for men or dirty as a women I will for sure pass you by


DawnAdv3nture62 replies on 11/12/2021 11:29 pm:
Agreed!

Upinnit2 51M  
9 posts
11/10/2021 6:30 pm

not surprising


1deeptouch 79F  
111 posts
11/11/2021 9:18 am

Pictures with tighty-whities down around the ankles are a turn-off for me. If it has the rim of the toilet set showing, too, its an even bigger deal-breaker. The trashy room condition just confirms the quality of the person exhibiting it.


DawnAdv3nture62 replies on 11/12/2021 11:30 pm:
I look at it the same way as you do.

SomewhereSE 64M
312 posts
11/11/2021 1:06 pm

    Quoting YourGoodLukCharm:
    Personally, I'd be careful to what you post on any platform. Sadly this site now wants you to post pictures to their site instead of being able to use photos from your personal collection as we were once allowed to do. I wouldn't give this site that freedom with my photos. Just Google your handle and see if your profile has been used on any of their affiliate sites or stolen and used elsewhere. My profile and handle had been used on a Japanese site and the profile slightly modified to appear that I'm interested in gay males along with women and I'm not interested in men at all as stated in my original profile. Also I work part time at some colleges here. As part of our employment agreement, being found on this site or on other social media with compromising pictures of any degree could be grounds for dismissal. All I'm really saying is be careful with what you allow out of your control. It may live forever on the cloud and maybe given a different label or a new name. Chat a bit first, and see if you have the right chemistry first, that you might want to exchange a pic or two before meeting, or cam perhaps. Then hopefully meet in a neutral place for coffee, a drink and/or food, to see if you both share some common interests, feel safe, and wish to go further; that is of course unless you feel confident about the other and like the rush and butterflies of stranger sex. I might add that anonymity is also more difficult if you live in a small town as faces can be much more recognizable than when living in a larger metropolis.
Most people don’t bother to read the site terms of service to know that they grant ownership of all content they post to the site.

Since the photos and content become property of the site to do as they please, anything lifted from the site is actually their property, so I doubt any user posted copyright notices can be enforced by the original former owners, since by chain of ownership they were not taken from them. That seems logical to me as a photographer, but I’m not an attorney to be certain if that’s how it actually works.


aaronsforeplay62 59M  
80 posts
11/11/2021 2:26 pm

there are so many fake profiles on this site. Having pictures gives me a chance to see if they are photoshopped or not. Theh quality of some of the photos gives away certain details that screams fake. a picture of a woman claiming to have a 42 D-cup and the picture shows a 30 A-cup. Stuff like that.


NewLustyFool 51M
46 posts
11/11/2021 7:02 pm

The pics don't matter TOO much, but . . .

The ones that aren't selfies, I wonder: who took the picture? There has to be an interesting story there!

And some look a little TOO good. Obvious fakes?


SomewhereSE 64M
312 posts
11/12/2021 1:12 pm

    Quoting aaronsforeplay62:
    there are so many fake profiles on this site. Having pictures gives me a chance to see if they are photoshopped or not. Theh quality of some of the photos gives away certain details that screams fake. a picture of a woman claiming to have a 42 D-cup and the picture shows a 30 A-cup. Stuff like that.
Google Image search and Tineye are your best bet to eliminate commonly used fakes, for women as well as men.

Anything that looks like a professional studio shot should be considered suspect, though once in a while you will members that have the skills and equipment to be that good.


DawnAdv3nture62 replies on 11/12/2021 11:33 pm:
Agreed

Bamarambro 55M
32 posts
11/12/2021 2:11 pm

All fair in luv and war.


polytype_blkmale 56M
14 posts
11/12/2021 3:33 pm

It is wat it is. Lol


BLINGCOCK34 59M

11/13/2021 12:51 am

open that tight pussy


Passi0natelu5t 36M
11 posts
11/13/2021 5:27 am

It helps catch my attention, but it's not really the most important thing to me.


tastemeY 55M  
129 posts
11/13/2021 7:30 am

My pics are real and it’s me! Theirs should be too!


juliabihotty 51F
19 posts
11/13/2021 7:49 am

Yes. Profile pics are important.


EroticSexter999 61M
42 posts
11/14/2021 7:22 am

Unfortunately I can't show my brain, which is the most attractive part of my body.

So, you get to see what used to be my brain, which doesn't function how it used to!


Oldengamer76 45M
12 posts
11/14/2021 3:09 pm

I'm always super cautious about what pictures and information I put up on any site. Any picture you post can be copied by someone who wants to use that picture to trick/defraud/catfish someone else, or just use for trading down the line. The worst case scenario, which I think someone mentioned, is someone using your own pictures to create a copy of your profile.

That being said, I try to put up pictures that are good quality, well-lit, and show me as at least being clean. Pictures quality is as important to me as the content of the picture itself.


cnysport6977 58M/55F  
5 posts
11/15/2021 2:45 am

Yes it does matter! We are a couple and that is the first impression you get to see. Doesnt necessarily have to be nude either


Lets69play6969 40M
16 posts
11/18/2021 11:50 am

Do like to see who I'm talking to


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