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Good night............................
Posted:Jun 17, 2007 8:29 am
Last Updated:Jan 23, 2021 8:53 pm

I had a good night last night! Getting together with friends, meeting and makeing new ones! I doesn't get any better than that. Well, maybe it can.
Hopefully everyone got home safely and enjoyed themselves while they were here. I'm looking forward to the next time we can all get together.
Have a good one peeps!
Oil can........
Posted:Jun 2, 2007 5:19 pm
Last Updated:Jun 11, 2007 2:21 am

Oil can what?
Sorry, couldn't help it. Just got the oil changed in my van today. I'm a well known procrastinator, and have no idea of how to service cars. Finally got in to see the guy that does the work for me..hey in my defense he's a busy guy, and although it's been three weeks since my service engine light came on, today was the earliest he could get me in,Ok? After watching my dad and brothers change out motors in blinding snow storms when I was a , I vowed to myself then and there to never have to work on my own auto. I've saw too many windshields that had the nearest loose part hurled through them by an irate sibling, or P.O.ed dad. I figured that I didn't need that headache. So I'll leave the tinkering of my van to a professional.
My good friends followed me out to the garage to assist me by giving me a ride back home if the problem was more than the required oil change, ok it's a 96 model..sometimes it's not always a minor fix, and it took some time the last time to get it repaired. Better safe than sorry, and being stranded in BFE with no way to get home is never any fun.
I rely on them a lot, perhaps more than I should. But working most of the time, and being who I am, I don't have too many friends. Nice to know the ones I do have are great people. We get along, have the same values and the sex..well needless to say I've never known a more compatible couple!
So, I'm good for another few months with the van...do have to get that front tire replaced yet though, but that's a quick stop up the street...and my friends? We'll be meeting up after they get off work tonight, when I can thank them better for all their help.
Friends with Benefits............
Posted:May 28, 2007 10:14 pm
Last Updated:Jun 6, 2007 1:21 pm

You opened it so you HAVE to repost it! A test of your bravery.

(Next time I'll be careful of what I open, but here goes...)

Here's how it works:
Statistically speaking, unless you are a total hermit, social retard, or ugly as a bag of spoiled ass...
There's at least 1 person on your network that wants to date you or REALLY sleep with you. So..... lets play "friends with benefits"

The rules are simple... if you want to date the person who posted this, send them a msg. saying "Im yours".

If you just want to sleep with them and stay friends, send them a message that says "I'd hit it".


THE TWIST IS YOU HAVE TO REPOST THIS & see who replies. There is at least 1 person on your network that wants to date you, and maybe more that want to truly sleep with you.

SO... re-post this as "friends with benefits"
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Memorial Day..................................
Posted:May 28, 2007 1:47 am
Last Updated:Jan 23, 2021 8:53 pm

A day we stop to honor the fallen men and women of our nation for their sacrifice. But how do we say thank you to someone who is given so much? How do we honor the dead? We can't. It's not enough to say thank you, for the challenges they had to face, the battles they had to go through. Giving their very lives to preserve the freedoms of our land, and the freedoms and lives of other nations.

We, as a free people have been given a great gift from those men and women. One that we can never really repay. So take a moment today to remember the fallen, pray that they have found the peace in the afterlife that they fought and died for. They deserve it, after all if it weren't for those same men and women it would be a different world.
Posted:May 26, 2007 2:13 pm
Last Updated:Jan 23, 2021 8:53 pm

Breasts, jugs, ti-tty's...mans fascination with the female form goes back a million years. Big or small we love them all, goes the phrase. While checking the Blogs today I saw a survey where the writer was asking women if, when a guy is checking out there boobs if they notice ,or not? Okay far be it from me to rain on this writers poll. But Of all the women I encountered in my life, none aside from my ex wife had ever failed to notice if I was checking them out or not. The ex wife was a blond..ok.. one strike...very introverted...strike two..and also very shy when it came to flirting...Take a shower honey, your done.
Yeah women notice guy...right around the time they reached puberty they saw the control they had over guys and their raging hormone's. They know we love em....and looking..well that's second nature to every guy. Dealing with the looks is another thing, and possibly a better question to poll on I think? Getting into a woman's head to know what her feelings were on that subject far out weighs the original question.
Like the colorful hues of a flower that draws the honey bee and allows it to gather the pollen, men are, and always will be attracted to a woman's breasts. But only by knowing a woman's mind can men ever sample her endearments.
Playing Solitaire till dawn..............
Posted:May 26, 2007 2:21 am
Last Updated:Jan 23, 2021 8:53 pm

With a deck of fifty one. Smoking cigarettes and watching Captain Kangaroo, now don't tell me I've nothing to do...
Trouble with being single is that life's realities don't live up to the single life's reputation. Meaning...that single folks don't really have it that easy.
Sure, we're free to do what we want, when we want. But, usually there's nothing to do. And no one to do it with. Least wise in my case. I work two jobs..ok one and a half really. One of my jobs is part time that would be the half job. That takes about fifteen hours a week of my time. (those hours being taken out of the weekends) My other job is your standard forty hour a week, making the grand total hours for a normal week being 55. Now when I say normal, that's baring any unforeseen hitches. Like covering for the other guy who works the same job I do but covers the rest of the "normal" work week for that position. If he's off sick I'm called in, as was the case last thursday. So, as I'm writing this post I'm working on only two hours of sleep time for the past three days. (forgive me if I get a little fuzzy on things, or if I ramble) Anywho, back to my point....which was things to do and people to do things with. Being a member of FuckBookHookups I try to make contact with others in the lifestyle, that I think, would be good people to hang with. Checking out profiles to see if we'd be compatible. Sending out mail, or invites to those whom match some of my interests. Very few, take the time to respond...either in the positive or the negative.
So what's a somewhat good looking guy too do? Well if it were a game of football I could drop back five yards and punt, hoping to run the clock out. But it's not a game. It's life.
The thing is I'm not looking to have sex with everyone I meet off here, Let's face it there ain't enough hours in a day to sleep with everyone who catches my eye. Not to mention the amount of stamina that would take to accomplish.
What I am looking for is to make some friends, people who don't have the hang up's of societies blue nose's. People, who if the chemistry is right that could become more than "just friends", and perhaps a woman I could eventually settle down with and share a life.
I don't know, maybe I'm asking too much? All I do know is that there has got to be more to life than working and playing solitaire till dawn.
Posted:May 20, 2007 12:49 pm
Last Updated:May 20, 2007 7:32 pm

Okay, I couldn't resist. After I got done spell checking and going over my last blog entry I noticed that I'd made it too 68 posts. Well I just couldn't help it I had to go for the "69".
Thing is I wouldn't be me if I hadn't.

So, from me to all of you....Thanks for looking, I'd never have made it without you!


That is!
On a night out..it was a night out they would remember...
Posted:May 20, 2007 12:28 pm
Last Updated:May 24, 2007 2:36 pm

For a very long time.

Sorry, couldn't help paraphrasing from one of my favorite movies. Got to meet some of the people from one of the groups I belong too last night. Every one was nice, not that much talking could have been done, what with the bands playing and all. But, still I had a good time.
Thing that struck me the most about meeting them all was the fact that, they didn't quite look like the photo's they have on their profiles. Not that I'm saying that's a bad thing. Quite the opposite. Truthfully the pic's don't do them justice. I felt honored to be in the presence of such great looking ladies and gentlemen.
I did cut the night short on my part though, being the last time I went out for an evening was months ago, I wasn't use to the partying night life. Chalk it up to me getting old?
Who knows? All I know is that there are great people on FuckBookHookups, and last night I had the privilege of meeting some.
Silly day............................
Posted:May 17, 2007 2:16 pm
Last Updated:May 18, 2007 1:32 pm

Should be a national day for silliness. Just my opinion. Think of it, a day set aside to act as silly as one wanted.
Thing is, as adults we tend to forget how cutting loose and acting up can be good for us. In our button down world of 9to5 we get lost in too much seriousness. Got to show our grown up face to the world..make do, get along. We've forgotten how to play..just for play sake. With the summer coming on the memories of yesterday come flooding back to me. Staying out late and counting the stars, the seemingly never ending days full of baseball, kickball, playing cops and robbers, or just sitting around and shooting the bull with your friends. It's said youth is wasted on the young. I don't think that's really true. More so I think that is the old folks among us all that have just forgotten what young is, and what we were.
So, take some time this summer..go out and play..it'll be good for you!
Mother's day/The good ......................
Posted:May 13, 2007 12:32 pm
Last Updated:May 13, 2007 12:37 pm

Well first off I'd like to wish all of the FuckBookHookups mom's a happy mother's day! Having already had to suffer through birth, I'm sure some of you felt that was easy compared to the "special" breakfast that was prepared for you this morning.
Still, as a mom, you know it was made with love. That's all that really counts. In our life time we turn to our mothers for so much, and being who they are (Our mom's) they are always there for us, no matter what.
Some like me, well my mother passed away some years back, and today is one of those days that I wish I could talk with her again. The last time we did talk was sort of special too me, as she wasn't with me for very much longer after that.
At the time my ex and I were going through what would become a bitter break up and divorce. My mind occupied with my troubled marriage,and the money problems I was facing due to my ex's spend crazy ways I guess I was pretty much wrapped up in my own personal hell at the time. When I get moody, or introspective I tend to clam up. While visiting Mom at the nursing home where she had taken up residence after suffering her third stroke she sensed my distraction. Well she was my Mom after all, the woman knew me from birth, and could tell when something was bothering me. We talked for a bit, discussing this and that..how's the job? How she was getting along? Has anyone else from the family been by lately? How my were doing? The silly things you chat about with a mom. Then out of the blue she said something that knocked me for a loop. She told me that I had been a good ..well her statement floored me. Now in my family love was often never expressed out loud, in fact I could count on one hand the number of times the phrase "I love you" was said among my brothers, or from one of my parents. The thing was, the love was there, just never stated. But her saying to me "you've been a good " Brought me out of the funk I'd been in. It made me realize that someone really loved me for me. That even though I was failing at something as important as being a husband and provider that in the end it didn't really matter.
For with her statement she gave me my self worth back, made me see that I was an ok guy and that things would turn out better. She made me smile again as only a Mom could do.
A few weeks later I lost her, and although I wasn't able to be there when she passed away (long story involving the ex) I knew it didn't matter to her if I had been there or not, as Mom knew how I felt about her, and she about me. In the following days, I never cried, the sadness just wouldn't come. Making arrangements for her funeral, the viewings, the wake....all those things didn't matter much, Mom and I had connected that day in her room and had said our good-byes. The trappings of the funeral were to Honor her memory and the life she lived.
I miss my mom sometimes, many days I wish we could just talk again. But it's comforting to know that she has gone on to a well deserved rest.
I love you Mom, but then you know that, you always did.
Happy Mother's Day ladies! Have a good one!
If you look at mine I'll look at yours......................
Posted:Apr 29, 2007 12:16 pm
Last Updated:May 21, 2007 2:01 pm

Blog that is. I must confess I like reading the blogs. You'll find they can be funny, heart warming, thought provoking, serious, and can sometimes let a little in site into the writers soul.

A poem written by a friend can tell you more about them, then if you were to have known them for a lifetime. A first experience ( bad or good) related in a blog can connect a writer and a reader more than anything. "Yeah I remember when times were like that", or "Wow! I had almost the same experience" It's cathartic really, the author relates their tale purging themselves of a fear, expressing a hope, or just ranting about the days events gives a little bit of them self, the reader shares those thoughts and can interact and perhaps shed some of their own demons, realize that maybe their dreams can come true, or say to themselves "hey! I'm not the only one who has an idiot for a boss."

The blogs can make you laugh, smile, think, and yes even cry sometimes. But, they do more then just amuse. They connect people. In today's cy-ber world where every one is attached to some form of communication what seems like 24/7, it's nice to know that blogging is a form of communication where people can actually stop and really get to know one another.

To quote a wise friend... "Blog on people!"

Why is it...............
Posted:Apr 28, 2007 3:05 pm
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2007 11:42 am

Why is it that we hold people up to higher standards then we hold ourselves? We joined a site like FuckBookHookups to connect with like minded people such as ourselves. But then we pigeonhole, or ignore the people just like us for the sake of some set parameters that normal every day folks couldn't live up too. People looking for that surreal wet dream fantasy. A Greek god, or that perfect lady who's 5'2'' and has eyes of blue. Real people aren't like that, and if your lucky enough to be like that, then congratulations!

Men, women, and couples, some with very cut in stone rules on who they'll meet, and where. Fail to acknowledge an email. Even if they sent a reply as "no thank you not interested" would be enough.

Let's face it, we're all different.We all look for our ideal match. But it's the differences that make us truly special and unique. We all should take a second , and third look at those folks that contact us. For behind that small flaw that doesn't fit in with our ideal match may just be the friend, or friends that we have been looking for.
Been dreaming again..............................
Posted:Mar 2, 2007 7:10 pm
Last Updated:Mar 2, 2007 7:20 pm

Okay, for those who've read some of this blog before know what I'm talking about. For those others who haven't page back to earlier blogs to see what's up.

Same town...same people who I haven't met yet. It's getting rather frustrating in a way. I close my eyes at night and drift off only to find myself living elsewhere than I do,hanging with folks who I don't know that seem to be life long friends.

The dream started as the all do..along that highway that I've never ridden on, it's close to the sea and the landscape is breathtaking. An almost tropical feel to it, but more woody if you follow me. Lots of pines, and junipers..but warm enough for less heartier trees.

Anywho...I was driving this time? I guess I got my van back somehow (earlier post) and was on my way to meet someone. Stopping at a bar I happened to be passing I got out as I wanted to get a case of beer..[Ok, I know you can't buy a case at a bar in Pa. but then I'm not in Pa. am I?] So I stroll in to the bar and walk up to the counter to buy the brew, and the bartender says " I told you I didn't want you coming in here again"
Taken aback, I'm at a loss for words..all I wanted was a case, and as far as I knew I've never been in the place before? So I say to the guy.."look all I want is a case of beer and I'll be on my way" That's when he pulls a baseball bat from under the counter and slams the business end down on the bar top screaming at the top of his lungs that if there wasn't a counter between us that he'd take my head of at the shoulders. As I'm backing away...slowly.....as not to incur his wrath a woman walks in from the kitchen area yelling at him to stop being an ass and to leave me alone. I turned to look at my savior and I realize that I've known her..( Yes in that way. Though I haven't ever seen this woman before in my life I know we've slept together ) She's a cu-tie too, short, soft brown hair, and those big brown eyes that make me want to melt. I also notice that she's with . Very much with ..looks about seven months along. Thing is that's when the light bulb in my head goes off..the is mine. The bartender..her husband, and the reason he's so pissed at me is he knows it's mine as well.

Well, My dreaming mind is thinking this is a fine pickle I stepped on when I walked through the door. Here I am going along my merry way and having fun with this alternate dream reality and I've gone and got some guys wife in the family way. And if he had his way I'd be bleeding profusely and a needing a trip to the nearest ER.

Well, as she comes round the bar, she's saying pay him no never mind..[do I detect a southern drawl?] He's just as much at fault as you are for me being knocked up (ok her words ladies..don't shoot the dreamer) Hell it was you that said that we should have stopped at the drug store for some condoms, but he wanted to get home and get to it. We're all at fault really. We wanted the tree sum and this is the results, wasn't jes you.

Okay...now in the waking world I can't father , I've had that operation that makes all guys cringe when the think about it. (My ex wife's idea...said it be easier for me to get snipped then for her to have her tubes tied) Anywho...I know this, that is to say I'm dreaming that I'm about to be a father to some who was conceived in a three way with a great looking woman and her husband and I know I can't be. But at the same time, I know that this is real and that I am the dad.

More later..gotta head to work.

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