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Thinking Outside The Box A Slightly Different Approach
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Thinking Outside The Box A Slightly Different Approach So I’m thinking outside the box so I can eventually get . . . inside a box – ooohhh the irony of it all.  There are a couple problems with living out in BFE when you’re on inter/web/nets dating sites; 1) there are few women around here who are on this site and they are either not interested in older guys (most local women on this site are in their 30s or 40s), or are actually part of a couple, 2) women get inundated with messages etc and may end up not responding to anyone. Those also happen to be 2 of the reasons why I don’t for these site(s). Also, there are generally more things to do, dating wise, in bigger cities and I do go to events in the big city here in AZ. Given situation expanding outside my local area seems like an option I should at least explore. But . . . ‘getting noticed’, since I’m not even close to the city, does not happen by itself. So a different approach seems like it would/could be useful in deepening the “talent pool”. I’ve seen on some women’s Status and/or Intro lines they put out there they will be in X-town on xx-date. While may work well for women, probably not-so-much for a guy. Also, being a chronologically advanced guy doesn’t bode well for approach either. But . . . Would an event I’m thinking of going to draw eyes/attention/interest in my direction? For instance what if I put in my Status and/or Intro lines; “Looking for a Lady Companion for X-event. Inquire within.” It would be something I have not seen much. But, I would still need to get it seen by the women in the big city. OK you crazy wadda ya think? Does I gots sumthin or be I kwazy?  Any tweaks to my idea?When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself. |
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Hi K, I didn't see this response till now. If we got together there wouldn't be much rest - but we could try to between "coffee" breaks. D: When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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Sounds like a plan to me! Gigs, theatre, day long events, all good for a start? Any racing events in your area that might interest a lady? There's an annual cheese-rolling competition in England (not sure where), I mean, who could resist that???   When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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That is a good idea actually and reading most of the comments,it never hurts to try..  When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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oh i think that might be a darn good idea...now, i don't know if you are gonna end up with getting laid, so to speak, but hey...it's a start...plus it sounds like fun...you never know what comes along...ya know...try it... When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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Sounds like a plan to me! Gigs, theatre, day long events, all good for a start? Any racing events in your area that might interest a lady? There's an annual cheese-rolling competition in England (not sure where), I mean, who could resist that???
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That is a good idea actually and reading most of the comments,it never hurts to try..
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oh i think that might be a darn good idea...now, i don't know if you are gonna end up with getting laid, so to speak, but hey...it's a start...plus it sounds like fun...you never know what comes along...ya know...try it...
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Thank you When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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Concert is one thing I was thinking another is the Renaissance Faire happening in March. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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Let me know when you are attending an event in my area... When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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I'd say it can't hurt. You never know! I hope it works!!  When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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Let me know when you are attending an event in my area...
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I'd say it can't hurt. You never know! I hope it works!! "Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is relax." – Mark Black
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You know my friend I think that's a great idea, I mean what's the worst that can happen right. I mean there are so many people on this site you never know what will happen. Please let us know if someone answers you if you put that on your status..Have a peaceful Sunday Red.. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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I don't see anything wrong with it. If your gonna be in their area anyway, why not? When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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I've been on and off this site for a number of years and have seen the female demographic change significantly in my area - the majority of females under 30 are bots/fake, and as you have seen yourself, there's a significant number of "couples" profiles masquerading as single females. I now think there's a bigger chance of meeting someone in the "real world" than using this site, but given my social skills even that would extremely remote. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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  When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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I get send messages on IM from ladies much too young and all with an email attached  I'm kind of out on a limb myself living in the far SW of England. Good luck Red  Thanks CWhen the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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Red, this place is like fishing on the river, you never know what works, throw any thing out, try this new approach, but do report back to the more chronologically advanced guys the results, I liked that!!!! The sun shines here for the first time in 10 days. Still wet everywhere though....enjoy and Good luck When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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You know my friend I think that's a great idea, I mean what's the worst that can happen right. I mean there are so many people on this site you never know what will happen. Please let us know if someone answers you if you put that on your status..Have a peaceful Sunday Red.. Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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I don't see anything wrong with it. If your gonna be in their area anyway, why not?
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I've been on and off this site for a number of years and have seen the female demographic change significantly in my area - the majority of females under 30 are bots/fake, and as you have seen yourself, there's a significant number of "couples" profiles masquerading as single females. I now think there's a bigger chance of meeting someone in the "real world" than using this site, but given my social skills even that would extremely remote.
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I get send messages on IM from ladies much too young and all with an email attached I'm kind of out on a limb myself living in the far SW of England. Good luck Red 
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Red, this place is like fishing on the river, you never know what works, throw any thing out, try this new approach, but do report back to the more chronologically advanced guys the results, I liked that!!!! The sun shines here for the first time in 10 days. Still wet everywhere though....enjoy and Good luck Stop by at lonlyforlove2 also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker" also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'
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