To begin, please know that I am a standard member. That means if you wave at me, wink at me, hug me or slug me, I am unable to return the gesture. So if you want my attention, send me an email message. Otherwise it will seem like I am ignoring you, even though I am not. I am a healthy, happy, heterosexual man, a true gentleman in the old fashioned sense of the word. I am happily married, and am in no way looking to cheat on or dishonor my wife. I'm here to meet new friends, and to engage in friendly conversation. I have a healthy dose of curiosity and a strong, often crazy sense of adventure. I have a very active, and vivid imagination, as well as a moderate gift for self expression. I have some formal education, but most of my real learning has taken place in the many years since I attended college. I have been learning since I was a , and I never intend to stop. My interests are widely varied, and include music, art, literature, and science. I enjoy anything to do with the outdoors, and when the weather is favorable, I am more likely to be found there than anywhere else. I am five feet ten inches tall, and weigh 185 pounds. I have a ready smile that is never far from my face, and I use it often. I am neither fat nor thin, but just about right, and I keep myself in generally good physical condition. I have a full head of thick, dark hair, worn long and pulled into a ponytail, and I occasionally wear a well groomed beard. I have large, dark brown eyes which are most definitely the windows to my soul. I love and animals, and I will not abide anyone who would harm either. I have a deep and abiding respect for all living things, as well as for all persons who deserve and earn it. It is my policy to, as far as possible, treat people with due dignity and kindness. I enjoy coming to AFF to meet people, to enjoy fun and playful interaction. And I am always on the lookout for new friends. Maybe even you.

My Ideal Person I am always on the lookout for someone with tastes and temperament similar to my own. Someone who while they may not always be in complete control of their lives, at least feels comfortable on the ride. Someone who enjoys getting acquainted with new and interesting people, and who likes connecting with a kindred spirit. You know, that feeling you get that tells you, "This person is OK". It's like meeting someone new, and you immediately get the feeling you've known them before, but you know you have not. Not in this life, anyway. Someone who, like me, doesn't connect with that type of person every day, but expects it to happen.

I am not looking for a sex partner. (See introduction above) I get all the loving any man could possibly hope for, and I would not and will not cheat on my wife. If I were that sort of cretin, I'd be in a bar, not on my computer.

I prefer those who are close to my physical dimensions, but really, your looks, your height and weight, and your age are not near as important to me as your attitude. One terrific quality of this medium is that you really get a chance to learn if someone is beautiful inside, without being first biased by their physical appearance. The fact is that the world is filled with some really ugly, beautiful people, and some really beautiful plain ones.

You must have a good sense of humor, and a healthy dose of self respect. If you're loaded with baggage, or looking for someone to rescue you from a bad situation, I'm probably not your type. I'm not here to rescue anyone, but I can and do offer some pleasant respite from the daily grind. I also don't care to interact with bigots, or anyone whose heart is cold enough to hate another for being different. If you don't live by the Golden Rule, or if don't know what that means, then I am definitely not your type.

It is important too, that you smile more often than you frown. Everybody has bad days now and again, including me. BUT... I can't abide a negative spirit, and will not spend much time interacting with those who aren't generally happy, or at least seeking happiness.

If you are looking for someone to mistreat or disrespect you, or if you feel comfortable with someone who would, then look somewhere else. But if you seek a discreet, kind, and considerate gentleman, one who knows well how to treat a lady, one who takes your feelings into consideration at all times, someone with whom you can laugh, cry, share humor, and perhaps establish a friendship, then introduce yourself, and let's get acquainted.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Mutual Masturbation, Handcuffs/Shackles

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, A little of each

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